"When Life Trains You for Your Destiny: My Journey to the 10th House in Pisces"
- Raquel McKenzie

- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
To all my astrology girlies out there, I want to share a realization I’ve come to—not from books, charts, or theories, but from lived experience. Having your 10th house in Pisces is, without a doubt, one of the hardest placements to navigate. And I only truly understand its weight because of everything that led me here.
From the very beginning, life seemed to test me in ways that felt impossible. My North Node in Scorpio demanded deep, relentless transformation. It forced me to confront my shadow, to peel away layers of fear, control, and attachment. My sun in Capricorn and the 8th house taught me lessons about power, intimacy, and trust, often through intensity and hardship. My Aries stellium in the 11th house challenged me to assert myself in community, friendships, and collective spaces, even when it felt like I was walking through fire.
Every betrayal, every lie, every moment of jealousy and envy that I experienced—it was all part of a training ground. Each experience, no matter how painful, was preparing me for one thing: my 10th house in Pisces. This is the placement where you are called to live by knowing, not by sight; to trust your intuition over appearances; to build your life on inner guidance rather than external validation. And let me tell you, arriving here is nothing short of transformative.
Now, my life flows in ways I could never have imagined. There’s a comfort in this space, a sense of alignment and ease that I had never felt before. The parts of life that once consumed me—approval from others, the sting of gossip, the weight of lies and envy—have finally lost their power. They stopped at this house, and I am free. Free to create, to lead, to live my purpose without being dragged into drama or distraction.
And yet, the story doesn’t end there. Now, cause and effect begins to unfold for those who harmed me. Life has a way of balancing itself, and I can witness it without needing to intervene, without needing revenge. It’s a quiet, almost mystical kind of justice, and it’s part of what this Pisces 10th house teaches: to rise above, to remain centered, and to trust the universal flow.
Looking back, I see the purpose in every challenge. The heartbreak, the betrayals, the tests—they were all necessary. They were the crucible, refining me into someone capable of holding this energy. And now that I am here, I understand that this is the culmination of everything I’ve been through: the transformation, the lessons, the fires I’ve walked through.
To anyone navigating this placement—or any deeply transformative astrological path—I want you to know this: your life experiences are not random. They are preparation. They are training for your destiny. And when you arrive at your place of knowing, you will see just how everything, even the hardest parts, were necessary to get you there.
I am there now.
AND WOW.....
JUST WOW!




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